Connected, but alone? by Sherry Turkle
"[Texts and phone calls] don't really work for learning about each other. For really coming to know and understand each other. We use conversations with each other to learn how to have conversations with ourselves. So a flight from conversation can really matter, because it can compromise our capacity for self reflection."
"Being alone feels like a problem that needs to be solved."
"I share, therefore I am."
"Solitude is where you find yourself so that you can reach out to other people and form real attachments. When we don't have the capacity for solitude, we turn to other people in order to feel less anxious or feel more alive. When this happens we're not able to appreciate who THEY are. It's as though we use them as spare parts to support our fragile sense of self."
"We slip into thinking that always being connected is going to make us feel less alone. If we're not able to be alone, we're going to be more lonely."